My life turned out great and I wouldnt trade being gifted for not being gifted. We do focus our kids on working hard. They get praise for trying hard, increment

My life turned out great and I wouldnt trade being gifted for not being gifted. We do focus our kids on working hard. They get praise for trying hard, incremental improvements, focus, advance preparation, and leadership. We never praise them for being smart. We talk a lot about what happiness means and how to be truly happy.