Time is the missing factor. People aren't patient enough to build a relationship. I think it's 90% familiarity. 1. Bunch of strangers 2. bunch of strangers wit

Time is the missing factor. People aren't patient enough to build a relationship. I think it's 90% familiarity. 1. Bunch of strangers 2. bunch of strangers with afew people I recognize 3. started to be familiar with afew of the people who are there all the time 4. friendship blossoms This happens naturally in school and in early adulthood. Later when you have children, spouses, jobs, and other interests it happens less. You an absolutely make it happen if your lonely, just be patient and don't be creepy.