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_do they keep asking for favors without giving you the feeling that you are still friends?_ Then they disappear until the next time. I do not mind helping othe
by going_ham 4y ago
_do they keep asking for favors without giving you the feeling that you are still friends?_
Then they disappear until the next time. I do not mind helping others at all! I try to help people as much as I can.
_if they think, for you to be worthy of their friendship requires effort on your part, then they probably weren't good friends to begin with._
This might be the case with me atm. I simply can't afford to manage a perfectly feasible time because of personal reasons. However, I have friends who work around these limitations and still manage to catch up. There are some who do not consider this limitation.
- pnutjam 4y agoYou build expectations around relationships. It's hard when you define a rut. Try to reach out and suggest something to an old friend. A trick for making friend is often to make a minor ask. It makes a person psychologically invested in you. In this case, the people are asking you and you are giving, but you don't ask. Try to ask them for some sort of help, even if you don't need it. It's hard for me to ask people to do things or help me, but this it's often easier than setting aside a block of time convenient for both of you. Other people want to be helpful also.
- em-bee 4y agoA trick for making friend is often to make a minor ask i was actually thinking about that when reading the posts. are those friends asking for something in an attempt to reconnect?