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The reason friendships between adults are hard is because adults are reluctant to make themselves vulnerable, but opening yourself to others and making yourself
by goethes_kind 4y ago
The reason friendships between adults are hard is because adults are reluctant to make themselves vulnerable, but opening yourself to others and making yourself vulnerable is exactly what you need to start building a shared history of living (shared context).
- kelseyfrog 4y agoI just learned this in my mind 30s. So many hollow friendships before.
- renewiltord 4y agoIt has to be something like this because I add to my list of close friends fairly often - so I have lots of people to lean on (as I discovered when I found myself debilitated by an accident recently). I'm mid thirties and the last close friend who was willing to help me shower when I couldn't is someone I got to know 3 months ago.
- bradlys 4y agoYMMV. I found that least in SV - people are so guarded that they’re rarely ever going to be vulnerable even with anyone new they meet. Maybe it’s the crowds I keep meeting but everyone is uncomfortable with even talking about what they want from life - let alone what they struggle with. I think many people here don’t ever open up except with their therapist and parents.