The entire reason any political party, monarch, dictator, etc throughout history cares about what goes on in the bedroom is to ensure that families are settling

The entire reason any political party, monarch, dictator, etc throughout history cares about what goes on in the bedroom is to ensure that families are settling down, so less likely to revolt when you're taking care of children, and you're ensuring there are healthy future farmers, producers, soldiers, tax payers, etc. Religion often plays a role into shaming people into those roles, but isn't necessary if you can do it with force. If you're a woman or a guy playing around with seven dildos, you're not doing that and should be playing around with a member of the opposite sex's genitals. Hopefully you'll get a baby, whether you want one or not