> Internalizers do the opposite. They will place immense burdens upon themselves to unrealistically adapt and change when most people would confront the challen

> Internalizers do the opposite. They will place immense burdens upon themselves to unrealistically adapt and change when most people would confront the challenge directly. [...] An internalizer works around everything, always pushing the problem inward and never forcing the world to change. Internalizers can be harder to identify as they silently suffer in an absence of self-kindness. This blew my mind. Thank you for that.