> If you ARE a victim, then it's delusional not to feel as such. Even if you are a victim, by adopting a "victimhood mindset" you inflict further harm upon you

> If you ARE a victim, then it's delusional not to feel as such. Even if you are a victim, by adopting a "victimhood mindset" you inflict further harm upon yourself. Probably the best book written on this is Viktor Frankl's "Man's Search for Meaning" in which he writes about his experience as a prisoner in a Nazi concentration camp.