I don't think parent was talking about hand-holding at all. > You show them the application, you explain it to them, you give them time to look into it, you re

I don't think parent was talking about hand-holding at all. > You show them the application, you explain it to them, you give them time to look into it, you reply to their questions about the application and you give them tasks. Exactly; this is the training. Choosing tasks that match the other person's level, and being available to give good guidance, takes time, effort, and some skill.