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Made an HN account just to reply to this. I went to school in Kathmandu, Nepal and graduated high school in 2016. Currently I work as a programmer in NYC. 99%
by torvaldenom 4y ago
Made an HN account just to reply to this.
I went to school in Kathmandu, Nepal and graduated high school in 2016. Currently I work as a programmer in NYC.
99% of my teachers were sadistic assholes who’d be in prison for child abuse in any first world country. I’d be rountinely beatup physically for not doing homework, for disturbing class, for not doing well in tests etc. Once in 7th grade, I was spanked on my thighs by a teacher so bad I could not walk for 3 days. In 2nd grade by headmaster beat me up with a cricket bat on my shoulders and back for not finishing half of my English homework. And I was one of the better students (average B+ equivalent) , a lot of my fellow classmates had it worse than me. Specially the ones who had a different mothertongue (not Nepali). This is mostly cultural. Often parents would tell teachers to punish kids more because their grades were not good enough. Most parents including mine were equally abusive at home. I remember the utter, frothing rage of teachers who would go fully ballistic at kids for the minorest offense.
Regardless of culture, I believe the system attracted the worst of worst (those who can’t, —- teach) scum of the society who would find pleasure in hurting the helpless. You might think this is an outlier case but this is still the norm for the majority in Nepal and I believe a lot of third world countries.
After attending college in the states, I was diagnosed with ADHD, which no one knows about back home. It has taken me years in therapy to make peace with this and I’m still filled with horror and rage when I think about it. I don’t know what I can do about this, but my heart breaks when I think of hundreds of thousands of kids who are still going through this.
There were a couple (literally 3) teachers I fondly remember who were kind and tried to make their subjects interesting. But they were the exception.
- stairlane 4y agoI'm very sorry that you had to go through that. That's awful, and I hope you've managed to find peace in your new home. Here I thought I had bad teachers growing up, but thankfully they never laid a hand directly on me. You deserve to be happy and to be able to make mistakes without being hurt or punished for them...
- t-3 4y agoReminds me of my dad's stories of being beaten and berated by the principal every day for hitching a ride on the schoolbus that went past his house but didn't stop (it was only for white kids).
- rg111 4y agoHow is it nowadays? Is it still the same, or has it changed?