> I've never seen him "let go" if you understand what I mean. I don't quite, what do you mean? Thing is, I spend all my waking hours working to compensate for

> I've never seen him "let go" if you understand what I mean. I don't quite, what do you mean? Thing is, I spend all my waking hours working to compensate for a relatively underachieving upbringing and have little idea what I'll do in a few years, after I'm done with what I wanted to build. There are the usual aspirational things mentioned elsewhere in this page (learn languages, play instruments...) but those are a ton of work, definitely not letting go.