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> the sad part is that he hasn't found what he needs to forgive his parents. Where do you draw the line beyond which you cannot forgive someone?

• em-bee 4y ago
  there is no line, that's up to everyone for themselves. if you can't find what you need to forgive then that is sad for you because you still feel pain and you haven't found a way to make the pain go away. and i feel for you and i wish i could help you. i am not trying to suggest that you need to forgive in order to feel better. i don't think it works that way. but rather, you need to feel better before you can forgive. i am not feeling sad that you haven't forgiven, but i am feeling sad because you are still hurting. some may not find what they need to be able to forgive, and some pain will not go away, and it's sad that they will have to keep living with that.
  • Gordonjcp 4y ago
    > you can't find what you need to forgive then that is sad for you because you still feel pain and you haven't found a way to make the pain go away So if I decided that I'd chop your legs off for a laugh, you'd be able to find a way to forgive that?
    • em-bee 4y ago
      maybe if being in a wheelchair spares me from being drafted into a war where you die a gruesome death...