We encourage our kids to do sport and music, but they choose which ones (and have both changed as they get older) and we stop if they are not enjoying it or get

We encourage our kids to do sport and music, but they choose which ones (and have both changed as they get older) and we stop if they are not enjoying it or getting something out of it. We are also careful about what teachers/schools they go to to avoid ones that are mills for competitions etc. some teachers are as bad as over competitive parents. The important thing is to encourage but listen to them. And to make it clear that they can just do it for fun.