It’s very easy for the parents to manipulate the child into thinking it’s their own idea, whether through guilt or simply not knowing any better. The parents ar

It’s very easy for the parents to manipulate the child into thinking it’s their own idea, whether through guilt or simply not knowing any better. The parents are in a much more powerful position psychologically and mentally. So even if you don’t force them beyond their immediate will you could be doing something negatively. I think the best way to decide what’s too much is to think about whether or not the child will, 20 years from now, write a blog post shaming and exposing their abuse inflicted upon them.