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I found out overnight my dad passed away. Here's the thing - I might come here and post some thoughts about the big clutter horde at his place that'll need to b
by FooHentai 4y ago
I found out overnight my dad passed away. Here's the thing - I might come here and post some thoughts about the big clutter horde at his place that'll need to be sorted out. I'm certainly not coming here to talk about how I feel about my dad passing away. Because.. why would I do that? Who are you people to me? Who am I, or my dad, to any of you?
It would be pretty weird to do the latter, not the former. One is a shareable likely relateable situation with the potential for insight and interesting discussion. The other is a personal matter that doesnt belong on a generic online commenting platform.
I think most people understand this.
- onlyrealcuzzo 4y agoAm I reading this correctly? You're saying it's NOT relatable that your dad died and you're sad, but it is relatable that your dad died and left behind a mess?
- FooHentai 4y agoYou'll have to forgive me that my thoughts are a little muddled on the whole issue right now. My core point is that one aspect of the situation feels quite appropriate to discuss here, while the other more intimate (and central) one does not. The outcome, assuming most other people also feel that way, is that the discussion here is not representative of the grief experienced when a close relative passes away, and shouldn't be taken as any kind of indication about people here 'all being assholes'. And that this is expected and fine.
- Shermanium 4y agosorry for your loss.
- dgellow 4y agoI’m just an internet stranger but let me share that I feel sorry for your loss.