> How does this make you feel? Do you agree that “Choosing one side must exclude the other”? Is this an applicable statement to make in this context? This seem

> How does this make you feel? Do you agree that “Choosing one side must exclude the other”? Is this an applicable statement to make in this context? This seems straightforward to me. We are talking about people who have been victimized by another person, and may have a great deal of trauma from that event. We likely wouldn't question it even slightly if they said they could not work with their abuser. Working with someone who was convicted of performing the same (or similar) abuse on a different person wouldn't be too much different from that I don't think.