I think this sort of thing is valuable to at least attempt. I started dating a little late in high school (late bloomer physically, too). My girlfriend had a

I think this sort of thing is valuable to at least attempt. I started dating a little late in high school (late bloomer physically, too). My girlfriend had a lot of sexual experience and wanted to get to it. However, I knew just from the background noise of culture that young women often found young men's performance ... lacking. Desperate to do at least this one thing right, I got a lot of books on sex (from the reproductive angle, cultural, anatomical, etc.) but had a much harder time finding, well, material on technique, all while fending her off. It's in that weird category of Things Nobody Tells You About But Is Really Important.