Where did I say that I am being superficial? I am a bit hardened by life, but I do not at all see myself as superficial. I simply learned my lessons. I didn't u

Where did I say that I am being superficial? I am a bit hardened by life, but I do not at all see myself as superficial. I simply learned my lessons. I didn't use to be picky with whom I hang out, and then one day it came to me that my closest friend of six years is the most loathsome person I ever met, and, moreover, that he had been friends with me solely because he knew that I am not picky with people, thus he felt comfortable around me. So the "deep" strategy you are recommending (not judging books by their cover and taking tome to know people) hasn't exactly worked out.