I have often encountered the mentality that having a preference for a non-trans partner is transphobic. Personally I think a person's preferences for their par

I have often encountered the mentality that having a preference for a non-trans partner is transphobic. Personally I think a person's preferences for their partner are deeply personal and not really other people's business. I don't have a preference for other men, I don't think that makes me homophobic it just makes me straight. I think it's just that allowing people to have a preference for non-trans women or non-trans men requires admitting there is a difference between biological women and trans women, and biological men and trans men. Admitting that is something that I find many pro-trans people are unwilling to do.