I suppose it's worth noting that your gay friend had to add your phone number to his secret account, which is a privacy snafu on his part. After all, if he was

I suppose it's worth noting that your gay friend had to add your phone number to his secret account, which is a privacy snafu on his part. After all, if he was trying to hide his sexual orientation from you, why would he enter your contact details into that account? We also have to take some responsibility for our security and privacy.