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I am 62. About fifteen years ago I could have written almost exactly what you have written above. I blew up my long term marriage because of my fucked up thinki
by jes 4y ago
I am 62. About fifteen years ago I could have written almost exactly what you have written above. I blew up my long term marriage because of my fucked up thinking. It was a horrible mistake and one that I regret essentially every day.
Of course, maybe it's all different for you. I mean that. I'm only suggesting something to check.
Have a look at the material under "Nice Guy Syndrome" by Dr. Robert Glover. [1] Maybe get his audio book "No More Mr. Nice Guy" and listen to it for a bit, and see how well it fits or does not fit your situation.
[1] https://drglover.com https://drglover.com
- taylorius 4y agoI'm sure I fit that "Nice Guy Syndrome" profile to a considerable extent. I'll take a look at the audio book. Thanks a lot for the advice!
- sillysaurusx 4y agoThe flip side is that you know now that it was a mistake. Would you still be happy today if you hadn’t left, but without knowing it was the right choice? Happiness is a fickle thing.
- goldenkey 4y agoIsn't this just gonna result in stories based on survivorship bias? Those who put it all on red and won, aren't going to have the same experience as those who lost.