Not at all naive, anyone might have a piece of the puzzle, no matter what their age is. It sounds to me like you've done a better job than I did, exploring rela

Not at all naive, anyone might have a piece of the puzzle, no matter what their age is. It sounds to me like you've done a better job than I did, exploring relationships with women, and figuring out what works for you, so hats off! Tbh I wish I had've had access to the sort of information that's available online now, even just as a window into the breadth of people's views - they can redefine what is a "viable" viewpoint or lifestyle, and help a person find their way to a life that makes them happy.