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If they have a family and friends request to get things reviewed (as others have alluded too) but that person cant necessarily unban them himself. Is is inappro
by namelessoracle 4y ago
If they have a family and friends request to get things reviewed (as others have alluded too) but that person cant necessarily unban them himself. Is is inappropriate to use that process for a romantic partner?
How do we know that the conversation was "i will have sex with you if you unban my account" (which is pretty clear quid pro quo), and not her establishing a relationship then asking for a favor from a "friend"? It seems like a pretty dark rabbit hole if Meta of all places has to figure out if this person has a relationship with a person for pragmatic reasons or not. How many relationships do you have in your life that exist to facilitate X/Y/Z.
People trying to befriend people who are perceived to have some kind of power (be it economic, social, political, or in this case i guess technological?) is a very old tale.
- havblue 4y agoYes, there's no way to tell that there was a clear quid pro quo. I would say that these employees could be fired for intervening on behalf of someone who says she had sex with them to get her account back, though. You can be "friends" with your boss at work but hr will want to know about it if a physical relationship starts because of conflicts of interest and an appearance of impropriety. Friendship won't be treated like a bribe but sex definitely could be, especially if one party says it is.