Just to be a bit contrarian to the excellent existing comments, there is no achievement without effort, and there is no effort if you're never challenged. I wo

Just to be a bit contrarian to the excellent existing comments, there is no achievement without effort, and there is no effort if you're never challenged. I wouldn't abandon failure because it's unpleasant in the moment. "Boring" people, to me, are folks who fear failure. "Exciting" people are folks who find different ways to fail at stuff (that is, they very rarely fail at something for the same reason twice). If you want to be "exciting", find stuff to fail at. Ideally you'll get better at those things over time, but honestly it's not really necessary if your goal is to experience excitement in your life.