> and this is not to their faces but rather behind their back. If it's not to their faces, don't do it. It's just gossip at that point. Realistically who is th

> and this is not to their faces but rather behind their back. If it's not to their faces, don't do it. It's just gossip at that point. Realistically who is this benefitting? There's no way for the person you're criticizing to act on that feedback if you explicitly _never tell them to their face_. There's a time and place to criticize people to their face in a positive and encouraging manner. But gossip has never helped anyone.