>You are lucky because you have the privilege of being able to do this. Maybe the person you replied to is skillful because they prepared for it? Not everythin

>You are lucky because you have the privilege of being able to do this. Maybe the person you replied to is skillful because they prepared for it? Not everything is just the result of life's crap shoot of luck and privilege. If you're finding your employer requires more of you than you wish to give, drawing boundaries and sticking with them makes sense to some people. Psychologists use the term agreeableness[1] to express this sort of sentiment, a person who would demand not to be bothered after work would be classified as less agreeable than a person who is willing to take calls in an "emergency" or just as a regular function of their job, you can see the differences in the continuum there. Many of the most highly paid people have lower agreeableness in tech. [1]https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/agreeableness-conscientiousness-hassam-ijaz https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/agreeableness-conscientiousne...