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No idea why you’re being downvoted, you are absolutely correct and I’m afraid to say - the world can be a cold hard place and personal failures have consequence
by Mo3 4y ago
No idea why you’re being downvoted, you are absolutely correct and I’m afraid to say - the world can be a cold hard place and personal failures have consequences.
I do not see any kind of unnecessary insults or unreasonable bashing here either. It is necessary to speak the truth sometimes, if we’re just going to sit here and help OP shift personal responsibility no one benefits and no one learns. It would just further a victim mindset.
As sorry as I am for OP, there is really nothing further to add here.
- youniverse 4y agoOP isn't blaming anyone but himself in his post though! How a truth is delivered to a person matters I think. You can go the dopaminergic snarky route or have some empathy or call it maturity even. This comment reads like 'I told you so' for really no clear reason besides a perhaps grumpy commenter. Anyway not disagreeing with you in general but maybe you have an idea now! :) In the end he lost a small project domain so there really isn't anything to add that the OP can't figure out himself especially about personal responsibility and victim mindset (lol). He was probably just looking for someone to chime in with some loophole recovery advice or otherwise.