The homophobia isn't the problem. Neither is the bullying. The problem is that too many people think they have the right to act as "masculinity police", judgi

The homophobia isn't the problem. Neither is the bullying. The problem is that too many people think they have the right to act as "masculinity police", judging the men around them and seeking to punish men who don't measure up to some arbitrary standard, and they go unpunished. ACAB (all cops are bastards) includes vigilantes who play at gender-policing.