There's really nothing wrong with 2 consulting adults doing whatever they want unless it causes problems for someone else. Thus, let her keep blackmailing you.

There's really nothing wrong with 2 consulting adults doing whatever they want unless it causes problems for someone else. Thus, let her keep blackmailing you. TOTALLY ignore her. Just tell her once that if she did send those photos to anyone, you'll file blackmail and harassment charges against here. And then just stop talking, AT ALL. And if you do get fired because of this, drag your employer to court. You will win easily. Remember, there's nothing wrong that you did and you shouldn't be afraid. People like her are almost 100% bluff, and even if they did go ahead, you don't have to worry.