I didn't want to make my post too log with details but one particular family member has a pretty over the top reaction. They'll start yelling and threaten to le

I didn't want to make my post too log with details but one particular family member has a pretty over the top reaction. They'll start yelling and threaten to leave. I learned to never say things like, "you should" or "have you tried" to them. I'm good at not setting them off but my dad often has to stop my mom from giving advice or else this person will freak out.