This is an excellent overall comment. One thing: As a sibling has pointed out I do enjoy not getting harped on so usually its either a small enough task so ill

This is an excellent overall comment. One thing: As a sibling has pointed out I do enjoy not getting harped on so usually its either a small enough task so ill just do it or it’s difficult enough that I give reasons why I can’t do it (or need some dedicated time to get it done). Ive had managers who have understood this dynamic and others who have ignored and try to use force by continuing to harp after Ive provided reasons. Generally I haven’t lasted that long under the latter.