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Or maybe they are curious about your life and are not judging you or want anything at all... I mean if you don't want to connect with people then no worries bu

• causality0 4y ago
  Or maybe they are curious about your life and are not judging you or want anything at all Unfortunately the only people who call me without warning are either family or someone from work, and they always want something. Even if they didn't, having to figure out the correct response to that question can be burdensome. The honest answer is usually either something they won't understand, won't see the value in, or is inappropriate to mention. If I say "nothing much", that translates to "of course I'm happy to sit here and listen to you talk about meaningless drivel for five minutes before asking me a favor."
  • motoxpro 4y ago
    I'm sorry. There are people in the world who will care about your honest answer even if they don't understand or it is of no "value" to them (I put quotes because it should be valuable to them because YOU value it not because they can "use" it). To me that's what a friend is, a relationship that is non-transactional where you connect with and support each other because you want to. Hope you keep looking people who you can express your feelings and ideas to.