> people really don't care I won't say you are wrong, as such. In fact 'they' absolutely do care, but just don't understand. I've done tons of research on thi

> people really don't care I won't say you are wrong, as such. In fact 'they' absolutely do care, but just don't understand. I've done tons of research on this, personally and reading all the latest papers and evidence for about 9 years (back to 2013). People _really_ care. However, not to pick on you specifically but here's is a reason I am replying in order to challenge not you but the dangerous idea - the meme/mythology that "people don't care" is pernicious and naturally spread within the social networks that stand to benefit most from it. It even has it's own entire subculture of self-denigration and celebration of surrendering dignity as a badge of honour. You're not wrong, because you've been strongly influenced, and the psychological reasons we parrot the the "people don't care" line are complex and involve each of our own relations to personal boundaries.