Well, thanks for your advice, but I am afraid that you have completely misunderstood my posting. I stressed that I meant "honest in a non-rude way". Most people

Well, thanks for your advice, but I am afraid that you have completely misunderstood my posting. I stressed that I meant "honest in a non-rude way". Most people experience me as a very agreeable person with excellent social skills. You can be honest without hurting people's feelings. I mean honest in the sense that I own my mistakes and do not attempt to look good in the face of failure. Listening is probably the most developed skill I have and I do not care about "authenticity". I am not writing this to prove you wrong, just to show you how far off your assumptions can be after reading a few lines about a person on the Internet.