You could say they're winning, but they are essentially abusing the good-will of society by imposing the care of their offspring onto society instead of caring

You could say they're winning, but they are essentially abusing the good-will of society by imposing the care of their offspring onto society instead of caring for them themselves. It may sound bad, but in my mind, purposefully bringing children into the world without security to care for them seems immensely evil and selfish.