I agree 100%, I donate every year to charitable causes but VC is not charity. This thread reminds me of my softer youthful years, I can still feel the despair

I agree 100%, I donate every year to charitable causes but VC is not charity. This thread reminds me of my softer youthful years, I can still feel the despair while standing with my back against the wall at the school dance, wondering why and noting how unfair it was that I wasn't dancing with anyone...