Note that I was describing communities and not individuals. Some properties get fuzzy when you scale down. But, also, I have faith that most women have a very

Note that I was describing communities and not individuals. Some properties get fuzzy when you scale down. But, also, I have faith that most women have a very good intuition about which strange awkward men are harmless and which are not. If you're not a women or haven't talked to many of them about this, it's hard to really internalize how profoundly important it is for women to be able to make those calls correctly many many times throughout their lives.