Makes complete sense to me for LTRs. Being responsible for my own happiness is enough. Being responsible for mine AND someone else’s happiness is too difficult

Makes complete sense to me for LTRs. Being responsible for my own happiness is enough. Being responsible for mine AND someone else’s happiness is too difficult to sustain long term. Step 1: Learn to fulfill your own happiness. Step 2: Find someone that can do the same. I can intuitively get a sense that someone generates their own happiness (with a varying degree of accuracy). Though it’s highly dependent on facial cues, tonal intonation, and conversation. Until big data gets hold of this information (and I hope it never does), it probably won’t be able to be an accurate match maker. Dating can be fun, why take the fun out of it? It’s the joy of meeting someone interesting after a bunch of bad dates that kicks your brain into gear and excites you about discovering that person. A perfect match maker might inadvertently destroy itself by taking the spice out of dating.