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Because people got super freaked over the risk of pedophiles, though they should worry more about their family members perpetuating sexual abuse than a random s

Because people got super freaked over the risk of pedophiles, though they should worry more about their family members perpetuating sexual abuse than a random stranger.

aksss 4y ago
To some degree perhaps aggravated by people having less kids, therefore the kids they do have are extremely valuable to them, driving demands that the world be nerfed up.
- t0mas88 4y ago
  I'm not sure it works that way. It's not like you care less about your first child after having a second. They're all the most loved thing you have in life.
  - aksss 4y ago
    It's all anecdote, but I believe I've witnessed it many times - families with four kids don't love them any less, but they are less attentive to any one, less photos are taken, by kids 3 & 4 things aren't really "new" and scary like they are with kid 1. Couples with a single kid, particularly after trying for a while, have come across as highly protective and hyper-focused. I'm just speculating here - I recognize I don't know nuffin about it, ultimately.
    - BenjiWiebe 4y ago
      I'm an oldest child, 3 siblings. My experiences and observations would agree with you. Sometimes it even gets just a little annoying - how come my youngest sibling gets to do things at a much younger age then I was allowed to? :)
    - kbelder 4y ago
      I've had four... five? I lose track. You're right, in that it's not that you care any less about your later kids, but you tend to be more pragmatic about child rearing. Better at recognizing the important events and problems, while shrugging off and ignoring the trivial stuff. You learn that you don't need to worry about a kid eating a crayon, and you recognize that certain pain cries mean "I'm not really hurt." You realize that sometimes the best thing you can do for a kid is ignore them and let them figure stuff out themselves.

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Because people got super freaked over the risk of pedophiles, though they should worry more about their family members perpetuating sexual abuse than a random s

by dariusj18 4y ago

Because people got super freaked over the risk of pedophiles, though they should worry more about their family members perpetuating sexual abuse than a random stranger.

aksss 4y ago
To some degree perhaps aggravated by people having less kids, therefore the kids they do have are extremely valuable to them, driving demands that the world be nerfed up.
- t0mas88 4y ago
  I'm not sure it works that way. It's not like you care less about your first child after having a second. They're all the most loved thing you have in life.
  - aksss 4y ago
    It's all anecdote, but I believe I've witnessed it many times - families with four kids don't love them any less, but they are less attentive to any one, less photos are taken, by kids 3 & 4 things aren't really "new" and scary like they are with kid 1. Couples with a single kid, particularly after trying for a while, have come across as highly protective and hyper-focused. I'm just speculating here - I recognize I don't know nuffin about it, ultimately.
    - BenjiWiebe 4y ago
      I'm an oldest child, 3 siblings. My experiences and observations would agree with you. Sometimes it even gets just a little annoying - how come my youngest sibling gets to do things at a much younger age then I was allowed to? :)
    - kbelder 4y ago
      I've had four... five? I lose track. You're right, in that it's not that you care any less about your later kids, but you tend to be more pragmatic about child rearing. Better at recognizing the important events and problems, while shrugging off and ignoring the trivial stuff. You learn that you don't need to worry about a kid eating a crayon, and you recognize that certain pain cries mean "I'm not really hurt." You realize that sometimes the best thing you can do for a kid is ignore them and let them figure stuff out themselves.