All very good advice. I would add: 10. Your workmates are not your friends. Your friends are your friends. and 11. The way a company shows it appreciates y

All very good advice. I would add: 10. Your workmates are not your friends. Your friends are your friends. and 11. The way a company shows it appreciates you is mainly, not only, through money. (Related to 10) Having fun "team building" activities in otherwise non working time is not them showing appreciation.