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Really? It helped me. It was nice for me to have someone else acknowledge that the emperor was in fact naked. The emperor transparent clothes in this situation

Really? It helped me. It was nice for me to have someone else acknowledge that the emperor was in fact naked. The emperor transparent clothes in this situation was the suggestion that offices aren't horrible places to be. Take the IBM book of songs, for example. I would like to emphasize that I agree with you (and my original comment): Therapy is a cheat code! It will make your life immeasurably better. Everyone should do it!

agumonkey 4y ago
No need to fight, I think both of you are right. Some people can get stuck into painful context or interpretations, in which case some therapy trick can help get out of the pit. That said if you discuss high level sociology you often end up in the "what a massive soup of chaos" too.
ineedasername 4y ago
If the emperor is in fact naked, then you're not deluded in believing that. I'm confused by the use of that term in this way.
- fartcannon 4y ago
  Yeah. I can't write in my own first language. Forgive me. Let me try again: The emperor is actually naked (offices are bad), but for various reasons people say the emperor is not naked (offices aren't bad). Does that help? I need help, clearly.
  - morpko 4y ago
    The problem is not that you’re saying “offices are bad”, it’s that you’re conflating “the ability to maintain a healthy-ish mental state after being exposed to an office” with “a delusion that offices are good”. Lots of bad things exist, being able to function in the face of Bad Things does not require you to deny or ignore that reality. Poisonous spiders exist, but overcoming arachnophobia (an unusually debilitating reaction to encountering spiders) isn’t a “delusion that spiders are safe”, and won’t make you try to kiss a Black Widow.
    - fartcannon 4y ago
      I vouched for your comment after it was killed. I think it's a valid point. Certainly nuance is vital when talking about mental health.

agumonkey 4y ago

No need to fight, I think both of you are right. Some people can get stuck into painful context or interpretations, in which case some therapy trick can help get out of the pit. That said if you discuss high level sociology you often end up in the "what a massive soup of chaos" too.

ineedasername 4y ago

If the emperor is in fact naked, then you're not deluded in believing that. I'm confused by the use of that term in this way.

fartcannon 4y ago
Yeah. I can't write in my own first language. Forgive me. Let me try again: The emperor is actually naked (offices are bad), but for various reasons people say the emperor is not naked (offices aren't bad). Does that help? I need help, clearly.
- morpko 4y ago
  The problem is not that you’re saying “offices are bad”, it’s that you’re conflating “the ability to maintain a healthy-ish mental state after being exposed to an office” with “a delusion that offices are good”. Lots of bad things exist, being able to function in the face of Bad Things does not require you to deny or ignore that reality. Poisonous spiders exist, but overcoming arachnophobia (an unusually debilitating reaction to encountering spiders) isn’t a “delusion that spiders are safe”, and won’t make you try to kiss a Black Widow.
  - fartcannon 4y ago
    I vouched for your comment after it was killed. I think it's a valid point. Certainly nuance is vital when talking about mental health.