I do what I use to do on dates that weren't working out. I politely explain, "hey I'm not feeling this, nothing personal - I just don't think it's going to work

I do what I use to do on dates that weren't working out. I politely explain, "hey I'm not feeling this, nothing personal - I just don't think it's going to work out. I don't want to waste anyone's time so I am going to go home." Say this confidently and without a hint of anger to avoid conflict. People will get bit flustered but just kill 'em with kindness repeating the three main things in the quotes: * Not feeling it * Nothing personal * It would be rude to waste your time They'll eventually get it as you pick your stuff up and leave. If it's an interview I will thank the person for their time/the opportunity with a handshake on my way out the door.