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Leaving doesn't have to be rude. If there's no reason to work on your interview skills, you can simply say "I appreciate your time, but I don't think I'm a good

Leaving doesn't have to be rude. If there's no reason to work on your interview skills, you can simply say "I appreciate your time, but I don't think I'm a good fit for _company name here_." You don't have to give any further reason. You are the boss of your time and effort, so don't waste it if you don't have to.

Clubber 4y ago
>"I appreciate your time, but I don't think I'm a good fit for _company name here_." I would also suggest this; it signals to the other interviewers that they just lost a potential candidate because of John Doe's behavior. They might take action, but they need to understand the consequence of having that guy on the team, or at least in the interview room.
- mysterydip 4y ago
  Would "I don't think your company is a good fit for me" be better wording (to show it's not your skills but their culture), or would that be too aggressive?
  - irvingprime 4y ago
    Too narcissistic.
    - hef19898 4y ago
      And perfectly fitting in such a situation. Being polite and professiobal avout breaking an interview of doesn't mean you cannot be "arrogant" doing it.
    - laserlight 4y ago
      Not at all. It is what it is.
zdragnar 4y ago
Invert that phrase. "__company__ isn't a good fit for me". Be clear that you are leaving on your terms. The interviewer may still tell people that you gave up halfway through, but if anyone else is listening or the interviewer is accidentally honest, it is more likely to trigger change by emphasizing that the company is losing you rather than you are losing the company.
- mrozbarry 4y ago
  I think that's a valid approach, too. It might just depend on the interviewee which is better. The inverted phrase is a bit more direct and dominant (which I don't think is bad), so I don't think it fits everyone's personality. That said, my recommendation is simply to be polite and leave, and do it on your own terms.
irvingprime 4y ago
+100

Clubber 4y ago

>"I appreciate your time, but I don't think I'm a good fit for _company name here_." I would also suggest this; it signals to the other interviewers that they just lost a potential candidate because of John Doe's behavior. They might take action, but they need to understand the consequence of having that guy on the team, or at least in the interview room.

mysterydip 4y ago
Would "I don't think your company is a good fit for me" be better wording (to show it's not your skills but their culture), or would that be too aggressive?
- irvingprime 4y ago
  Too narcissistic.
  - hef19898 4y ago
    And perfectly fitting in such a situation. Being polite and professiobal avout breaking an interview of doesn't mean you cannot be "arrogant" doing it.
  - laserlight 4y ago
    Not at all. It is what it is.

zdragnar 4y ago

Invert that phrase. "__company__ isn't a good fit for me". Be clear that you are leaving on your terms. The interviewer may still tell people that you gave up halfway through, but if anyone else is listening or the interviewer is accidentally honest, it is more likely to trigger change by emphasizing that the company is losing you rather than you are losing the company.

mrozbarry 4y ago
I think that's a valid approach, too. It might just depend on the interviewee which is better. The inverted phrase is a bit more direct and dominant (which I don't think is bad), so I don't think it fits everyone's personality. That said, my recommendation is simply to be polite and leave, and do it on your own terms.

irvingprime 4y ago

+100