Life is what happens while you're making other plans. Much in life is just plain old serendipity. A couple of my examples: I met my current wife when I was to

Life is what happens while you're making other plans. Much in life is just plain old serendipity. A couple of my examples: I met my current wife when I was tossing up whether to go to a party or not quite late in the evening. The door to the building was locked. I could have walked away, not bothering, and nearly did. But I decided to walk several hundred metres all the way around the building to another door which I knew would be unlocked. We had sold our house and had planned to move to another state for part-time work within a few months. A week later my brother died in an accident, I had to stay to take over the family business. That completely changed our financial situation, to where we have no financial cares at all. Another thing to 'listen to' is your dreams. Quite often your head will be telling you one thing, but your subconscious will be telling you something completely different in your dreams. Listen to those. You may not make a different decision, but you will make a more informed decision.