Yet asking while spitting someone in the face is not going to work well either. If your base principle is that the other person is privileged scum (even though

Yet asking while spitting someone in the face is not going to work well either. If your base principle is that the other person is privileged scum (even though there might be some truth to that in some cases), there's not really anywhere to go from there. Unless you're willing to go for violent revolution of course, but it should be fairly easy to understand that is not generally going to make the other sympathetic to your cause. Fair enough, some defenestration needs to happen every once in a while, but being divisive and going for open war might not be the best long-term strategy from a societal context, as opposed to some consensus and common goals.