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This is not fair. Most parents really care about their children but just caring isn't always enough. They don't always know how to fix it. Teen years is when ki
by collegeburner 4y ago
This is not fair. Most parents really care about their children but just caring isn't always enough. They don't always know how to fix it. Teen years is when kids start becoming their own people, they do more without parents, keep secrets, and those are not problems, they need that to become adults. But it is not fair to tell parents both "give your kid space to grow" and qt the same time "you must know everything about your kid, if they are self harming and you do not know then you're a bad parent".
- pmoriarty 4y agoI wasn't suggesting that parents don't care enough about their kids (though obviously some don't, and even abuse their kids). I was suggesting more of a society-wide caring, which I describe in more detail in another post in this thread: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=31304590 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=31304590
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