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You are saying that women don't respect successful men? Because in my world, nerds are successful.
by koonsolo 4y ago
You are saying that women don't respect successful men? Because in my world, nerds are successful.
- rektide 4y agoHow deep does the respect go? Is it a knowing respect that understands the real strengths & weaknesses of a person's professional persona intimately? Honestly I think it's probably kind of alienating & unideal that so many partners cant really communicate & share effectively what it is they face. We might get respect, but that doesnt mean the other person actually understands the game, or our moves. There's a whole idea of "workwife," as in, the professional partner that can comprehend & share & commiserate & bond over the "other" 40 hours of our lives. Someome else to co-play the work game with. Because so so rarely are our partners positioned to be able to, no? The post is about a lot more than respect. We can give each other respect for all kinds of things, all manner of reasons & successes. Respect can says more about the person giving respect than it can the person getting respect. This post is about a different kind of empathy, of understanding people as they want to be be seen, find ways to meet people on their courts & finding ways to be good witnesses to their moves/triumphs.
- ZephyrBlu 4y agoWomen respecting successful men who are nerds is generally them respecting the "successful" bit, not the "nerd" bit.
- uwagar 4y agowomen respect such men as long as those men meet their needs. could be any man, nerd or not.
- Sixsixsixtyfour 4y ago
- certifiedrodent 4y agoThis is an incredibly toxic outlook that fails to take into account that women are also fully featured humans with personalities. As a man, you likely get along with people both nerdier and less nerdy than you. Women do the same.
- chrisweekly 4y agoNot to mention that the "nerds" group is not gender-specific.