PVP related communities tend to be like that and there is little way to get around that. And I say that as a person who ran such communities. Try RP gaming com

PVP related communities tend to be like that and there is little way to get around that. And I say that as a person who ran such communities. Try RP gaming communities. By that I don't mean that hardcore RP communities or anywhere you have to do actual RP. Just the 'RP' tag in a mmo server weeds out assholes, pricks etc and ensures that there is a high age average in the server. The Wow Eu RP server I have been playing for years keeps getting 'immigrants' from US servers and PVP servers all the time. They escape the aggressive and toxic environments by moving to RP servers. They don't do RP, they just play and join raids and other activities.