Mattermost: for in-family conversations; i don't want my personal life mined for ad revenue, thank you. Gitea: because gitlab is too heavy for a cheap cloud se

Mattermost: for in-family conversations; i don't want my personal life mined for ad revenue, thank you. Gitea: because gitlab is too heavy for a cheap cloud server, and projects like microsoft/github's copilot project sort of ticks me off, frankly.