The argument that antiabortionists make is that it's murder. You can be against something without personally caring about the victim. If Bill kills average Joe

The argument that antiabortionists make is that it's murder. You can be against something without personally caring about the victim. If Bill kills average Joe down the street, I may not care about Joe personally, but I am concerned about him getting killed. Abortionists and antiabortionists make arguments that work in their echo chambers , without ever understanding what the other side thinks.