> you can be very attractive and therefore have a wide range of people interested in you but not have the social skills/psychological acuity to translate initia

> you can be very attractive and therefore have a wide range of people interested in you but not have the social skills/psychological acuity to translate initial interest into a successful relationship. I feel that. It took me probably until my mid 20s to realize that anyone found me attractive. Now I notice girls checking me out, and a cashier straight up said about my band shirt “I listen to them in my bedroom…” Still a major sperg, but I did find my person, so I avoided much of the minefield of modern dating.